Discover the unique quality in a woman

First, to find the woman that is right for you, look out for the qualities that best appeal to your sense of compatibility.

To make this discovery about a woman can sometimes be difficult. Don’t be discouraged, it isn’t

half as tough to find the woman that is right for you.

Be open minded, this is the first thing you have to allow yourself to accept. Cast aside all the previous standards that you have been applying and make a fresh scratch start. You must forget all that your friends say is what makes a woman attractive. Forget all those commercials on bikinis or underwear that you are accustomed to seeing on television. It is best that you begin from the very rudiments of compatibility.

You start with asking yourself, “What makes two people compatible?” Note: you are looking at compatibility between two people, not lovers. This is how to find what kind of person you are compatible with. Remember, what works for another might not apply the same to you or everyone else.

Take time to consider the complete person and not just the

body or the figure. This is how you will be able to find out what you are really looking for in a woman. Things to consider: Personalities, interest, ambition, drive, and then, of course, looks. Please not the order in which I have listed those traits. It is important.

If, for instance, you focused first on looks, it could very well becloud your proper judgment on all the other points. Remember, it is said, “Looks can be deceptive.”

It is common knowledge that men easily get carried away by looks, and are easily swayed by stirred, especially if the figure that they see visually is “attractive” by stereotype standards, which is what I earlier advised that you should guard against in finding the right woman for you.

Consider this. If you discovered what you want in all the other areas, you may end up with the conclusion that looks, or figure don’t really matter anymore. After all, as they say, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”

You may discover that a woman with a great personality

that likes football and racing as much as you do and who takes her career as a human resources director seriously, but who happens to be a brunette with only an average build, would suit you just fine. Conversely, if you find a pretty, tall shapely, sexy blonde who hates football, detests racing, and loves all the other stuff that you are not comfortable with, such a woman will certainly be a mismatch.

Therefore, personality, intelligence, ambition, sense of humor and interests play a much bigger role in attraction than just physical appearance.